As I have told you my story in My Cheese Keeps Moving, my views are my own and they are in no way the views of the church that I belong to.
Also, the things that I post here are all coming from the things that I learned from reading and attending different classes and lectures that I go to. Others are from my own experience. I may not always know what I'm doing. If something's worked out then well and good. What may work for me may not work for you. So I am in no way to be blamed if the suggested strategies that you applied in your life may or may not work.